The Rose Family Balancing
Act
Montpelier Fall 1999
When you ask people to describe Lin Rose, the answers travel common
themes - extremely well organized, a good listener, a person of integrity,
someone who asks a lot of questions, someone who sees the big picture
as well as the details.
Although some might expect a more flamboyant type in such a public
position, the JMU president readily admits, "I'm basically an introvert."
A tinkerer by nature, this introvert has almost a compulsion to find
out how and why things work. It's a compulsion that has its advantages
for JMU, which Rose, through his grasp for details, has gotten to know
from the bottom up as well as from the top down.
This same compulsion shows up in personal interests that tend to confound
many people - computers and cars. Whereas some might be tempted to kick
the fender or throw the mouse in frustration, Rose isn't daunted.
"Certainly there are things that are beyond a person's grasp to figure
out," Rose muses in his characteristically low-key manner. "But I don't
think a microcomputer or a British sports car fit into that category."
On any given day, Rose might be found inspecting a computer and projector
prior to making a speech - just to be sure the presentation will go
off without a hitch. "Some may say that's not good use of the president's
time - and perhaps that's so," Rose laughs. "But the president ought
to be entitled to a few quirks."
Quirks like an abhorrence to admitting defeat - especially when his
opponent is a computer - and a reluctance to call for reinforcements.
"I'm fairly stubborn," he admits. "I'll have to waste at least three
or four hours before I ask for help."
That determination surfaces at home too - especially as he and his
son, John, 15, pour over the final details of their work on John's 1959
Austin Healey bug-eyed Sprite.
This is the second Austin Healey to capture Rose's time and affection.
The first was a 1960 Austin Healey 3000 that he bought when he was an
undergraduate student at Virginia Tech. Never mind the car was an obvious
restoration project (parts of it came packed in a peach basket). Never
mind that Rose had no real automotive repair experience. It was love
at first sight, fanned by youthful self-confidence and blissful ignorance.
Armed with a manual, some tools and a conviction that "this can't be
that difficult," Rose pulled the engine and scattered parts and oil
across the floor of his parent's garage in Staunton. By summer's end,
the car was back together - with only a few nuts and washers to spare.
No matter. It ran, Rose's confidence soared, and car and man had cemented
a long-term relationship that now extends to John's car.
When Rose talks about Austin Healeys, a boyish grin spreads across
his usually thoughtful face. A grin molded by an obvious affection for
the cars and tempered by the realities of owning one. "British sports
cars - and I suppose you know this only if you've owned one - seem to
have a personality."
Personality, yes, and a less than stellar dependability record. "People
who own old British sports cars usually carry lots of spare parts with
them in the trunk - and lots of tools," Rose laughed. Helping his son
with another Austin Healey is like déjà vu for Rose.
Weekends often find father and son working on the finishing touches
of the car. Unlike Rose's Austin Healey of college days, John's is not
a restoration project. But it did have a number of maintenance projects.
Rose approaches this latest automotive challenge with the same methodical,
analytical calm in which he approaches his job as JMU's president. "I
try to do something myself first so I can show John how and what's involved,
show him the principles involved, and then I step back and let him duplicate
the same activity."
While the goal is a road-worthy Austin Healey, Rose sees far more
long-term benefits than just a set of wheels for his oldest son. He
sees important life lessons being passed from father to son. Lessons
he learned from a high school friend - a friend who never did any less
than his best at whatever he was doing, who never compromised quality
for speed or convenience. Lessons that have shaped Rose's approach to
his career and to his life. Lessons he hopes his sons will adopt as
their own.
Does the interest in British sports cars extend to Rose's youngest
son, Scott? Hardly. At 12, Scott claims basketball as his first love.
His room at Oakview is plastered with posters of Michael Jordan, and
his idea of quality father-son activity is shooting some hoops - or
getting great seats at JMU sporting events.
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Rose men (Lin, left; Scott, second from left; and John, right)
take a ride on the wild side. It's become a regular activity,
taking the family from theme park to theme park. Judith Rose |
Or riding roller coasters - a passion that has consumed
the Rose men for the last few summers. On the urgings of the two boys,
the Rose family has done the roller coaster circuit - from Cedar Point
in Ohio to Six Flags over New Jersey to the Virginia standards, Busch
Gardens and King's Dominion.
Is this some wild and crazy side to JMU's best-known introvert? Probably
more the actions of an accommodating parent. "I'd never ridden a roller
coaster until two and a half or three years ago," Rose admits. Now a
pro, Rose boards each new ride with nary a twinge of anxiety. Not so
with Judith Rose, JMU's first lady.
She watches from the safety of the ground, waves and indulges in her
passion for photography by taking pictures of her husband and stepsons
as they plummet, twist and twirl through space.
When Rose was named JMU's president last year, both he and his wife
were catapulted into a whirlwind existence where the balancing act between
serving the university and ensuring time for their blended family, each
other and themselves was precarious. Success in this balancing act has
required organization and the conviction that family time is not a luxury
- it's a necessity.
Admittedly, that can be a challenge when your home is the official
university residence and site of so many JMU functions that the calendar
blurs into one ongoing reception. During the first year of Rose's presidency,
Oakview has hosted more than 1,500 people.
To manage takes teamwork and planning. The Roses regularly meet over
coffee and bagels to compare daily planners and schedule time for family.
Family also includes Mrs. Rose's two adult sons, Shane Kauffman, who
lives in Florida, and Chad Kauffman, an emergency room nurse at Augusta
Medical Center, and his wife, Judy, and 18-month-old son, Tyler.
They also have worked hard to make Oakview feel like their home, not
just their house. When they first moved into the president's home, the
Roses gave the boys their pick of rooms and the leeway to decorate them
as they wished.
And while the home is always in a state of ready alert for public
functions, the Roses have reserved the downstairs for family space,
a refuge from the public eye. Life at Oakview is one of "tradeoffs"
for the Rose family. "You have to do a better job of keeping things
clean and picked up," Rose admits, but "on the other hand, there are
amenities that we wouldn't normally have."
Mrs. Rose takes a more philosophical view of the new family house.
What makes a family, she says, "is not so much a function of the house
as much as how the family functions."
In many ways, the Roses, as president and first lady of JMU, are a
complementary team. Both are organized and detail oriented; yet while
he is analytical, she is artistic. While both are fascinated by computers,
Mrs. Rose gravitates to the graphic art and animation possibilities.
And their current positions are the latest in a string of jobs they've
both held at the university. Mrs. Rose has worked at JMU in a number
of areas, including Student Activities and Administration and Finance.
Her first job, a three-week temporary position in 1989 conducting a
physical inventory of computers on campus, sent her searching through
every basement, attic and closet on campus. "It was a great way to learn
your way around campus," she recalls, laughing at the great memories.
Her last job included preparing financial presentations for Board of
Visitors meetings, including designing all the computer-generated backgrounds
and graphics.
That insider experience gives Mrs. Rose a perspective that's invaluable
in supporting her husband and in representing the university. It also
provides a reality check when it comes to coordinating events or scheduling
maintenance at Oakview. "I know a lot of the folks I deal with," Mrs.
Rose says, "and really understand what I'm asking of them and how it
affects their day, their job."
Mrs. Rose is a people person with a knack for putting her guests immediately
at ease. "Would you like to see the house," she asks a first-time visitor,
before launching an impromptu tour through rooms adorned with stunning
art and classic furniture but softened by family pictures and bountiful
cut flowers. Along the way, she pauses, an unabashedly enthusiastic
grandmother, to show off the latest pictures of grandson Tyler.
While she's opened the doors of Oakview to the gamut - from the board
of visitors to the landscaping crew - her favorite guests are students.
"Their enthusiasm is contagious," Mrs. Rose says, a smile lighting her
face. "They keep me young."
While both private people excel in their public positions, they both
recognize the importance of time to reflect and clear the official business
of the university from their minds. "I really have to structure my time,"
Mrs. Rose admits. "Otherwise I'd end up with no time to myself."
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First Couple enjoys gardening together at Oakview, where Mrs. Rose
often can be found in her favorite jeans, working right alongside
JMU landscaping crews who are responsible for maintaining the official
residence. |
Part of that private time is reserved for exercising. She walks to
unwind, clear her head and regroup. He runs - for the same reasons.
But, with the demands of the presidency, each one's exercise routine
has fallen prey to hectic schedules, and each has vowed to move exercise
up their priority list. "I'll try to keep it going this year," Rose
promises, "because stopping produced about 20 more pounds. All those
university dinners ..." His explanation trails off.
Next to walking and running, the Roses' greatest escape activity probably
is gardening. So one day you might find Mrs. Rose, dressed in a flowing
gown, hosting a black tie event, and the next you'll find her in her
favorite jeans, on her knees digging in the perennial beds bordering
Oakview's pool. Although the university landscaping crews are responsible
for maintaining the grounds at Oakview, Mrs. Rose graciously explains
her presence. "Please don't be insulted," she tells them. "It's not
that there's anything wrong with your work. We just want to do some
of it ourselves."
All part of the balancing act of two private people in two very public
positions.
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